From the moist Northwest to the crucible of the Nevada desert. I deserved an ordeal and I got one. Three weeks. My first 10 days or so out at the Temple cleared the head space so that once I got into Vegas and started connecting with the community my Lead started to shift and I spent the second 10 days of the trip on an emotional roller coaster of personal work. Once I was out in the desert, I was either fully engaged in something volunteer/support-related, or sitting in a niche in the rocks weeping, or trying to take care of some sort of maintenance of myself. If I dropped the ball, it was in that last department.
My nest was a pile of gear bags heaped behind the chairs of the older couple I took on as Homecomers. I was almost never in my tent, and only managed to day sleep by curling up in the rocks. It was a windy, sandy year and actually not showering for most of the event was part of how I survived. My skin went insane and the cessation of the use of soap was what allowed me to get my itching and dry patches under control. I de-gritted my head under a faucet once a day and just brushed off everything else as well as I could. I shared stove and cooler space with Fred and Touina. There were only two other tents at site 1, every other tenter went to site 3, which wound up packed. Other than F&T, the other guys at site 1 were a new guy and his Army-PTSD nephew. It took ten years, but now I can say that I've heard a man say "Don't bother Daddy, he's been up drinking and dancing," as he went into his tent to crash for the day. Hilarious.
Seriously though, I wouldn't be surprised if my aura kept nearly everyone away from site 1. I had the hardest event ever in terms of the Lead inside my head. I've been cracked ever since spending the day with E, and will weep at the drop of a hat or the glimpse of an angsty oblique muscle, really at anything. A lot of extremely intense shit that's been kicking around in my head over the last year deliquesced in the desert air. Painful but insightful. I said a lot of shit to people that has not been being said. Got some surprised looks, and some support too. And then there were all the insane things that happened that weren't coming from inside my head.
Sun and Moone in Hermes Vessell
Learne how the Collours shew,
The nature of the Elements,
And how the Daisies grow.
This last year of near constant Nigredo finally seems to have popped and I shifted through a Peacock's Tail phase into Albedo. Hence my eye-moistened present experience. I am staring down some of my worst teenage damage, and I'm not sure exactly how this is all going to go. My sister said one of the most interesting things she's ever said to me just last night, as she was running around and freaking out as she prepared to leave today for a week of retreat, for which she is the main organizer. She said to me that she realized that it was hard for me to be in the regular world in some ways, but when you put me into an event/community situation, I was absolutely the most normal person there. Then she said that normal wasn't the word she wanted to use, but she wasn't sure what else to call it. I got she was implying not just how I am as a person, but how I function in that setting. That's some serious shit to ponder for this next week as I have the place to myself.
The three week relocation threw me in a way I hadn't had before, on the sunnier side of the seasonal change for once. I was gone so long the lateness of light in the evening shifted far enough that I've been completely thrown off since I got back a week ago. I can't tell how late it is at all at night, and it stays light until past 9pm at this point. That's kept a bit of the waking trance feeling from MayFire going. I have been sleeping up a storm. I actually had about 60 hours at MayFire where I got 3 hours of sleep out of 24 instead of my usual 6 hours. That was one huge altered experience that went on for days, with so much wind, and being up all night fire tending actively and all that napping in the rocks. I got to serve Rattlesnake Fred tea in his own tea house, after covering service so he could go see Ariel lead the Moon affinity group's transition ritual. That was serious gold. Emergency secret burger delivery to outside the afterglow: priceless. I worked the texting magic of the travel phone for that one. Bought UV sleeves on a whim in mid-trip. How have I never owned these until now? I will be packing for Illumination differently based on a few things I tried this outing.